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Playwright: Dalara Williams
Director: Ian Michael
Cast: Bryn Chapman Parish, Mathew Cooper, Nic English, Guy Simon, Stephanie Somerville, Megan Wilding, Dalara Williams
Images by Stephen Wilson Barker
Theatre review
Cheryl, Lulu and Queenie have so much to look forward to, not least of which is the first Aboriginal debutante ball in Sydney. It may be 1966 and the marginalisation of Indigenous peoples is still atrocious to say the least, but nothing can keep these young women down. Big Girls Don’t Cry by Dalara Williams is at once political, philosophical and romantic; a dramedy that portrays the fullness of these friends’ lives, with all that makes them rich as a collective and as individuals, contained in one charming play.
Direction by Ian Michael suffuses the work with a palpable warmth, keeping us completely endeared to these characters and attentive to the many ebbs and flows that form their circumstances, as Black women finding happiness in a colonised city.
Set design by Stephen Curtis features a revolve that provides every scene with a sense of movement and urgency. Costumes by Emma White ensure that we know exactly the epoch being depicted, while creating flattering silhouettes for each of the bodies we encounter. Kelsey Lee’s lights manufacture a tenderness that stays with us for the duration, so that we can connect with the sentimentality of the piece, and sounds by Brendon Boney offer nostalgic allure as they guide us through oscillations between pathos and laughter.
Cheryl is played by aforementioned writer Dalara Williams, with a commendable subtlety that establishes a beautiful poignancy, for a story that only becomes increasingly meaningful, with every subsequent scene. Megan Wilding plays Queenie, who along with Guy Simon’s Earnie, form an extraordinarily charming pair, memorable for the wonderful humour they inject into the presentation.
Stephanie Somerville brings a valuable sweetness to the role of Lulu, almost as a constant reminder not only of the resilience that is being celebrated in Black women, but also of the very quality of femininity that is often neglected in discussions about survival and triumph. No less noteworthy are Bryn Chapman Parish, Mathew Cooper and Nic English, who are as measured as they are passionate, in contributing to this charming yarn, about the incredible women who continue to teach us how to make things better for future generations.
Big Girls Don’t Cry is about the giants on whose shoulders we stand. It is about the examples they have set that we must follow, and their legacies which although entrenched, can easily be forgotten in many of our frenzied metropolitan lives. Cheryl, Lulu and Queenie demonstrate different ways to resist. They also show us how we can offer support and love, in the face of forces that wish to have us become more like them, cold and hardened.

























































































































